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Posted: April-14-2009 at 11:19pm | IP Logged Quote RW  

Geez, does anyone besides yours truly think we're living in a day and time of where we're a too connected society?
 
I was eating a late lunch yesterday afternoon with a couple buddies of mine at Pizza Inn here in Johnson City and, a man was sitting with his sophisticated cell phone typing out text messages or e-mails or something. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, couldn't he have taken at least 30 minutes to eat lunch without being bothered by his cell phone or by texting?
 
About cell phones out in public, is there anything more annoying to hear a cell phone ring out loud in a restaurant? Not just hearing the phone ring, but also having to listen to whomever talk in a loud voice over their cell phone. Excuse me, I don't want to hear anyone else talking business or about anything else while I'm out eating. First off, it's downright rude for an individual to be talking on their cell phone inside a restaurant.
 
We have computers and the Internet, instant messengers, MySpace, Facebook ... and now, Twitter. Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, don't expect me to be receiving "tweets" via my cell phone. I've never sent the first text message, and don't plan on sending one, either.
 
Before I had my cell phone provider (Alltel) block my phone's ability to receive text messages about two years ago, I was receiving 10-20 texts a day. I told buddies of mine if they wanted to communicate with me, either call my home phone or cell phone, because I wasn't about to type out a text on my cell phone. It's really quite easy to contact me, dial seven numbers. Because when I leave my home, I always forward my home phone to my cell phone.
 
I've got a plain cell phone. Not a camera phone, just a plain cell phone. I use my phone to talk on, not to take pictures with or send text messages.
 
I do use the Yahoo instant messenger. I used to also have the AOL instant messenger too, but I deleted it from my computer.
 
Oh, yeah, one more thing: I grew up in a day and time when cell phones weren't around. While at school if my parents needed to get in touch with me, they called the office at the school and a message was relayed to me. I have several friends I grew up with and attended school, they have taught school since we graduated back in 1981. Several of them are getting ready to retire in 2001, when they reach 30 years of teaching. Why? Because of the students they have today, that's why.
 
I'm beyond amazed that students are allowed to bring cell phones with them to school. Heck, when I graduated from high school in 1976, the thought of a cell phone didn't even register amongst myself and my fellow classmates.
 
A friend of mine, last school-year his son got his cell phone confiscated by the school's administration. My buddy was irate. He went to the school and demanded the cell phone back, he told the principal he'd see to it his son didn't bring the cell phone back to school. But he didn't get the phone back, then. He had to wait until the end of the school calendar year. It was clearly spelled out in black-and-white in the student's hand book regarding cell phones at school. Students aren't permitted to have their cell phones with them during class, but they can use them between class periods and during lunch period.
 
We all have out thoughts and opinions, and mine is ... no student should be permitted to bring a cell phone with them inside the school building. If their parents need to contact them, they can call the school office. If students are of driving age, they can have their cell phones locked inside their vehicles for when school gets out in the afternoon.
 
Just wondering, what are others' opinions regarding how connected a society we're living in today?
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Posted: April-15-2009 at 11:29am | IP Logged Quote ST1  

I do have a Myspace and Facebook but the main reason for having them is so I can stay in touch with my buddies down in Knoxville. I don't text that much at all but I do and sometimes its more convenient than calling. Not to mention its better to use if you don't want t talk to someone. lol. But I use it on occasion...certainly not a compulsive texter.

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Posted: April-16-2009 at 12:31am | IP Logged Quote RW  

But "ST1," if you don't want to talk to someone ... why have a phone? More convenient than calling? I personally feel it's more convenient dialing someone's phone number and talking to them than typing out a text message. Plus, there's no personal touch with the individual when you send a text versus calling them and hearing their voice.

Do your buddies have their own cell phone? Probably so, because it sure seems like every teenager I see today has one. I'd rather give my buddies a call or have them call me, instead of depending on keeping in touch via MySpace or Facebook.

This is just my personal take on it: A phone is to talk on. If I'm going to type something out, it's sure not going to be on a small phone keypad ... it will be here on my computer keyboard.

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Posted: April-16-2009 at 5:10am | IP Logged Quote BugMan  

Okay RW...here is a prime example of why I have txt messaging.

Yesterday I was in Sam's. As always I had my phone with me, and as always, I set it to vibrate before I went in. I was expecting several important calls, including one from Bug Jr who totalled his vehicle on his way to Ft Campbell the other day.

Keeping in mind that it always seems to be just my luck with regards to getting calls at inconvenient times, the first one came in before I had put the first item in the cart. I picked my phone up, went into txt mode and typed to Bug Jr "I'm in Sam's...will call when I get out." The next one came in from a client that has sent me TONS of business in the past. Again, I went to txt mode and simply typed "In a public place right now...will call you in about an hour".

What does this accomplish? Well Mr RW, it accomplishes two things. It makes family and clients understand that I'm not ignoring them, and also keeps me from being the guy you're talking about with regards to my phone ringing out loud and me having to talk in public.

I also use txt when I'm with a client and a call comes in that I might really need to get a msg to. Also, a voicemail came in asking about the age of the heat pump and roof on one of my listings. From Sam's I was able to get them the info they needed without ever making a call and possibly irritating another shopper or them thinking that I haven't responded in a timely manner.

Those are just a few examples as to why txt messaging is an invaluable tool. The faster I can get back to a client, the better perception that client has that I'll do whatever it takes to respond promptly. With regards to family it's basically the same thing. My Mom will call me countless times if I don't at least txt her back when she calls and I'm not in a position to talk to her. Same with a few others too.

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Posted: April-16-2009 at 8:05am | IP Logged Quote James K  

Yep RW we are now a wired society. Some folks don't get the "rules" on how to behave but they will. Just like smoking use to be!!!.  But it is where we are..... Yes I txt. It works great when in a public place and I can't talk. Do some people go over board yes they do. Just like with everything else good, people will abuse it!!!

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Posted: April-16-2009 at 11:33am | IP Logged Quote ST1  

Well, there is a certain member of my family who I contact via texting so I don't end up spending about an hour of my phone's minutes. lol.

I also used text messaging when I was at BMS to try to find where my friend was, considering I couldn't hear to call.

But I think it is quite something just to be able to say that I actually turn my phone off in school. In a typical classroom, there is more info. being transmitted from phone to phone than there is teacher to student in class no doubt. It's humerous to see people slide them out of their pockets, clearly looking down to see while they text. Just about everyday, a cell phone in "vibrate" mode will go off multiple times in at least one of my classes and every now and then you'll hear a "beep" as a text message has been successfully received.

Trust me, I'm actually not a big fan of cell phones. About 80% the time, I'm wishing that I didn't have mine.

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Posted: April-16-2009 at 2:35pm | IP Logged Quote Robbie Henry  

Once I was racing a UARA event when Froggie was with the tour. I only had one guy to help me so I didn't have a spotter in the stands. Frog, just trying to follow the rules, asked me how he was supposed to get a message to me during the race if race control had an issue with me and without thinking I said "just call me on my cell"...of course, I was going to be in the race car at the time. So yes, we are tooooooo connected! Shortly afterwards I realized how stupid my answer was!

But now that we have them we couldn't live without them....it's not enough that we had to walk to school seven miles, one way, in the snow, and uphill....we couldn't text either!!!



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